Think as you like but behave like other

If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far better to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.

The leaders of tomorrow

    Children are the future hope of the tomorrow in our society, whatever you want them to become tomorrow depends on what we impact in them, Pretty soon you will see them growing up with it. Our words towards our children matters most. Make use of your words carefully with them even while in their means. Their attitude depends on what they learnt from us. Children are very sensitive and calculative in nature, be careful with your attitude towards them. NOTE : whatever seed you sow in them will soon grow and we will eat the fruit their in whether positive or negative. Not everything they demands from us we give them. We must try our best to give them better life which they deserve from us. The environment we lives in contributes a lot in the upbringing of our children, watch the group of friends they keep at home even at school. Make out time to visit them at school; it is very important to their upbringing, concentrate most with the Look at their face and body speach especially when they are back from school. Ask them questions about what their teachers teaches  them also what they learnt from their school each day they return from school. Be very close to them and learn to associate with them, listen carefully to the words that comes out from their mouth, via their words you could be able to dictate what lies in their heart:positive/negative. Inside their heart Lie's a great thought. Children are the leaders of tomorrow, lets give them the best we can.  A good parents  always proud of their children likewise good children are always proud of their parents. Never regret sending your children to a good and better school, teach them at home what they couldn't learn at school and see the differents between them and other children. A child with a put more effort comment from the teacher in his result needs an excellent result. Children are sweet only when they are brought up in a good way. They are like a seed's, when you plant them on a fertile land,sooner or later you will eat the good food from them.

Dream fetchers

   Get caught dreaming. It's never too late for you to start thinking more creatively. Often is  just a lack of imagination that keeps a person from his potential. Thinking of new ideas is like shaving: if you don't do it every day, you are a bum. Ask God to give you a flow of new exciting and powerful ideas in your life. Constantly frustrate tradition with your creativity and imagination. "Ideas are like rabits. You get a couple and learn to handle them, and pretty soon you have a dozen" (anonymous). You will get more out of every part of your life if you stay incurably curious. Since it doesn't cost a dime, to dream, you will never short-change yourself when you stretch your imagination". Creativity is built into every one of us; it's part of our design. Each of us lives less of the life intended for us when we choose not to use the creative powers we possess.. @JOHN MASON of Why ask Why.

     

Overcoming the failure in you

    Opposite of success decrease a man from his equal. Eleanor Roosevelt said, "when you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die". Many died with their good dreams but only few emerged theirs into reality, due to the lack of ability many fails to take action before it's obvious. Of all things you wear, your expression matters most. None of the secret of success will work unless you do, put more ideas in all you do (expression). A failure is not one who fail 'No' but one who failed and refused to stand again,. In saying a firm "NO" to failure you must also do away with laziness because it travels slowly but poverty soon overtakes it.        
    Believe in yourself also believe in that good job/ business no matter how small it is, think unthinkable ways on how to establish it via by making it wider and larger. Don't depend on one rather go for more than two,. Learn to create your own styles "CREATIVITIES",. don't imitate others but have a role models. When you lack opportunities to conquer failure in your business/academic, just make a decisions. The moment you definitely decide, all sorts of things happen to help you that never would have otherwise occurred. Living a double life will get you nowhere twice as fast. Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny," said Tryon Edwards. There is no question that create opportunities by being decisive. If you commit yourself by being indecisive, what kind of life will you live?  James Hightower says. "There's nothing in the middle of the road but yellow stripes and dead armadillos". The truth is that the most dangerous place to be is in the middle of the road. No one conquers failure without taking risk,the journey of greatness is much more of risk.  too many people go through life not knowing what they want, but feeling sure they don't have it. Determination is mostly needed in conquering  the word "failure" the man that lacks determination subject to failure.Determination contribute to SUCCESS.

Until you are tired of hunting; you won't discover the potential in you

Why being jobless after graduating from a high institution? Most of our high school leavers and graduates are jobless nowadays hunting for job tirelessly, until you are tired of hunting one job or another, you won't be able to maximize the potential God has deposited in you. JOHN MASON in one of his book "Why Ask Why" "none of the secrets of success in you works unless you do" i describe the quote above as "existing in possibility and not reality".  When you discover your talent and how to harness it you will definitely begin to make good income. Many are frustrated today due to their dependence on others for their breakthrough. Inability to discover talents has made a lot of graduate to indulge in so many sinful and unbecoming acts...                                                               ...It is noteworthy that the real you desire success which is guaranteed by the 'you' in real you, and not anyone else. Leave your comfort zone! Think innovatively!! Meditate entrepreneurial!!! It's time to  rediscover who really are, so that you can soar like the EAGLE.
To be successful in life, you must resist the pressure of 'set back' and discouragement. It may seem tough in the beginning, but you must persevere; knowing that the 'largest room' in our lives is there just for self improvement. Reject continual job hunting, and migrate swiftly into discovering the potential in you. Say NO to idleness and laziness. Get up today and try something new. Always observe and see a problem within your environment, try to proffer solution, and have your name written in the sand of time. Involve everything around you for maximum impact. Nothing should be neglected because out of 'nothing' emanates 'something,' especially when your faith in God is garnished with a belief in hardworking. Engaging your potential means letting your ideas manifest clearer like still waters, and structured like crystal.
Ideas are like rabbits. Get a couple, learn to handle them, nurture them, sooner than later, you will have a dozen. Don't ever forget these:
* Be quite innovative when putting your ideas to use.
* Think creatively as you journey towards success.
* Never economize your imagination; how big is your dream?
* Exploring new ideas is regular shaving, if you do it daily, you will look ever smarter.
* Having discovered your potential, ask God to influx you with exciting and powerful ideas that will make you 'the story' and not 'a story teller'.
It is not yet late to make amends. You can start now. Never say never in the world of possibility. Come out of your low self esteem and be a SOLUTION TO YOUR GENERATION.   (NEXT).....How i started with just #83.000 and became millionaire.

9 qualities of a good leader

1.UNDERSTANDING: able to understand his followers,the way they behaves and also must be able to create  interactions and personal performance.
2.EXPERIENCE: like it is said' education is the best teacher. Experience and intelligence leads to hard work. Therefore a good leader should be experienced in so many ways in other to guide his followers also to be able and willing to achieve his aims in life.
3.PUNCTUALITY: a good leader must always be punctual in all his doing so as to set examples to his followers. Punctuality is a necessary step that guide a leader to push forwards and excel in whatever tasks he is giving or facing to.
4.CHARISMA: the quality of "brightness "which attract his followers, also enables them to make their points without aggression but firmly. "Must empathy"understanding the way others feels.
5.EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE: this enables a good leader describe how well he .treat and relate with the followers even to his personal feeling's. Able to listing actively and elicit information by good questioning.
6.CONSISTENCY &INTEGRITY: able to examine his leadership, who he is and what he stands for "personal and professionaly"  continuously. Must also ensure that it's actions aligns accordingly with complete tramperrency.
7.MOTIVATION: a good leader can be motivated enough by being ambitious, embracing greater goals and putting in time and work to continually improve their own performance.
8.DETERMINATION: being able to battle difficult goals, stands and take on tough challenges or recover quickly from setbacks.
9.CURIOSITY: openness to new experiences and information's,. Eagerness for feedback on how the followers are doing including their strength and areas of improve.

Our History speaks louder than our money

  Though it's unexpected to received such topic from the icon visionary institute, but fidelity is the fact. Here we understand "HISTORY" as the knowledge that studies the past,.. As well as A general acceptable means of exchange and measure of value,.. "MONEY".
History is something a leader can do without. Here in Africa today, we have gotten a lot of History that still guild and  strengthens us. We also lives and survived  under the strength and virtue of our past leaders ' HISTORIES'.
  NELSON MANDELA is one of our great leader with example in whom we have lived and survived under the virtues and strength of His leadership,  in one of his books He quoted 'Africans today learnt to survived  on the records and narrative description of our past event....  Your past event has a lot to do with your future when it comes to the history which you lives and breath on. Every successful leader do not need Money more than History. Your History guarantees the strength of your future( wealth, powers, firms, etc).knowing where,when and how you become a leader stands your ability and capability that qualifies your leadership